Marriage
Marriage adds a lighthearted relationship system to the server. Propose, accept, get married, and enjoy the benefits (and drama).
Getting Married
Section titled “Getting Married”/marriage propose <player>— Send a proposal- The other player runs
/marriage acceptwithin 60 seconds - You’re married! The server gets a broadcast announcement
Husband / Wife Roles
Section titled “Husband / Wife Roles”When you marry, the plugin randomly assigns one partner as Husband and one as Wife:
- These roles are permanent for the duration of the marriage
- Displayed as chat prefixes and tab prefixes
- No mechanical differences — purely for flavor and comedy
Prefix Formats
Section titled “Prefix Formats”- Chat:
[Husband of Partner] - Tab:
[Husband]
Benefits
Section titled “Benefits”Friendly-Fire Immunity
Section titled “Friendly-Fire Immunity”Partners cannot damage each other — melee, projectiles, splash potions, etc. Your spouse is the one person you can always trust in PvP zones.
Separation Damage
Section titled “Separation Damage”If you stray too far from your spouse, you take damage:
| Setting | Value |
|---|---|
| Max distance | 64 blocks |
| Damage per tick | 0.5 hearts |
| Tick interval | 5 seconds |
| Cross-dimension | Disabled (Nether won’t kill your spouse) |
“You are too far from your spouse. Get closer or take damage.”
Divorce
Section titled “Divorce”/marriage divorceEnds the marriage immediately. Both players get:
- A server-wide dramatic broadcast
- The Bachelor title for 24 hours
Drama Broadcasts
Section titled “Drama Broadcasts”The server is notified of every relationship milestone with randomly selected messages:
Weddings
Section titled “Weddings””♥ Alice and Bob are now married. May god help them.”
Divorces
Section titled “Divorces””✂ Alice divorced Bob. Reason: irreconcilable differences over diamond storage.”
Partner Deaths
Section titled “Partner Deaths””☠ Alice’s spouse Bob just died. After only 3 days. Tragic.”
A 10-second cooldown prevents death-spam broadcasts.
Commands
Section titled “Commands”| Command | Permission | Description |
|---|---|---|
/marriage propose <player> | marriage.use | Propose to someone |
/marriage accept | marriage.use | Accept a pending proposal |
/marriage deny | marriage.use | Deny a pending proposal |
/marriage divorce | marriage.use | End the marriage |
/marriage info [player] | marriage.use | Show marriage info |
/marriage list | marriage.use | List all married couples |
/marriage reload | marriage.reload | Admin: reload config |
Alias: /m can be used instead of /marriage.
- Marry someone you actually play with — the separation damage will punish distant relationships
- Your spouse is the one person you can trust in PvP zones
- The chat prefixes are a great way to show off your commitment (or lack thereof)
- Divorce cooldowns don’t exist — but the public shame might as well be one